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Who Can’t Pry Their Eyes from Their Mobile Devices!
by Jonathan McKee

“Will you put that stupid phone away!”

An all too common complaint in American homes today. But does whining about it do any good?

The problem is undeniable. Common Sense Media actually took a survey asking both teens and parents if young people spend too much time on their devices. 66% of parents feel their teens spend too much time on their mobile devices, and 52% of teens actually agree! (Perhaps the other 48% of teens never looked up from their phones.)

JONATHAN'S BLOG: Walking Alongside a New Believer
“What tools can I use to help new Christians understand the commitment they just made?”

It’s one of the most common questions I hear from youth ministries who are actually reaching young people for Christ. And I’m glad to hear the question, because it means these ministries realize the need to walk alongside new believers and disciple them.

My friend Scott Rubin, the Director of Student Ministries at Willow Creek Community Church outside of Chicago, just wrote a helpful little resource called The Essential Guide to My New Life With Jesus. I just read it and felt compelled to tell you about it… for two reasons:

  1. Scott is the real deal! He not only has been effectively reaching young people for the last two decades, he’s a great dad, a caring friend, and those characteristics leak into everything he touches.

  2. He knows how to disciple new believers like no one I know. Scott’s ministry reaches literally thousands of teens each year, and a huge chunk of them are the type of kids who don’t typically go to church. Scott’s ministry not only introduces hundreds of kids to Jesus each year, he disciples them and walks alongside them as they learn about this new relationship with Jesus.

That’s the kind of guy I want developing discipleship resources!

img class="size-medium wp-image-10269 alignleft" src="" alt="New Life with Jesus SCOTT RUBIN" width="214" height="300" />This book is really a one of a kind. It’s what I’m going to recommend to ministries who are looking for material to disciple new believers.

Scott begins the book by congratulating the new believer, and telling them a little about their new relationship with Jesus. Scott uses words new believers understand (Scott speaks that language fluently) and even defines some Christianese terms that they’ll hear. He doesn’t waste time with anything peripheral… he cuts straight to the real and relevant questions new believers have.

Scott addresses:

  • It’s a relationship, not a religion

  • How you can be sure you’re a Christian

  • The importance of reading the Bible, and why

  • How to actually find Bible verses and “meditate” on scripture (and what that means)

  • What to do if you don’t feel like reading the Bible

  • How to pray- pretty prayers aren’t required

  • What to do if Jesus doesn’t answer

  • Fessing up so God can obliterate our sins

  • Seeking mentors and other Christians

  • How to make new Christian friends, and reach out to old friends who still need Jesus

  • Answers to tough questions

  • Answers to churchy questions

Scott leads a new believer through all the essentials they need, in a format that's colorful, easy to read, and in small conquerable pages so you feel like you’re reading a lot fast! (I think today’s kids like that.)

One of the parts I enjoyed most about his book was how he urged the reader to surround themselves with Christian friends that will encourage them. He addresses this point with several examples, emphasizing that your faith isn’t something you should do “solo.” But then Scott shares stories of Jesus reaching sinners and encourages us to do the same (a tricky balance for many—having unsaved friends, but an inner circle of Christian friends). He says it like this:

“As you follow Jesus, you don’t need to discard your non-Christian Friends. In fact, they need you to live like Jesus—and to point them toward his love for them. Instead of trading in your old friends, you can add some new Christian friends to your social circles. And your Christian friends can help you show Jesus’ love to your non-Christian friends.” (page 79)

This book is the perfect tool for discipling new believers. Personally, I would give my leaders each two copies, and encourage them to go through the book with a new believer, giving one copy to the young person, and meeting each week to talk about what you read.

I’ll be adding this helpful book to the collection of discipleship resources I frequent!

What discipleship tools have worked well for you?
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David R. Smith

When the University of Houston’s Dr. Dipali Rinker released the findings from her research on college students and their consumption of alcohol, it forced her to coin a new term: drunkorexia.

I wish the word was describing an inebriated T-rex… but it's...
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